Any of these sound familiar? 

• There must be something wrong with me.

• I want to feel happy single but worry I’m kidding myself.

• I’ll never find anyone.

• I’ll never be able to have the life I want without finding a partner.

• Maybe the right person just doesn’t exist.

• Maybe I’ve missed the boat.

• I worry I intimidate potential partners.

• I should probably settle for someone instead of having no one.

• I spend too much time dwelling negatively on my single status.

• I feel inferior in some way to my coupled friends.